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I just don't care

I just realised that the older I get, the less I care what people think of me. Their opinions don't matter. Life's too short 😊 what's the point overthinking so much. So if someone doesn't like me, hell that's their loss but they've missed out on getting to know a pretty nice person. I'm no longer a people pleaser. I'm here to enjoy my life the way I want to, to cherish those that matter and avoid those that don't.
It doesn't hurt to be a little ruthless and selfish sometimes and never apologise for it. If the roles were reversed , they'd treat you exactly the same.
It's not being mean or selfish but I'm putting myself first a lot more. I'm taking care of my thoughts and opinions more because they matter. I matter 

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